The problem with being the go-to person for advice, is that you already know what to do but you REFUSE to do it. It is always very hard to look in the mirror and tell yourself to follow your own device. Any of my close friends could tell you that I am QUICK to tell them to move on from someone that isn't treating them the way they deserve to be treated...Why can't I listen to my own advice. What is it about the mind that keeps us from looking in the mirror before we tell someone something?
Denial...it's almost as powerful as infatuation.