Thursday, October 28, 2010

Check yourself before you comment on my posts

Since apparently some people don't know how to read, let me correct what I said so that you can fully understand it. I said I don't want a broke ass man who can't do anything for me. I don't want you to pay for everything in my life and do everything I tell you to do. I want you to BE ABLE to pay for things in my life. I have been in a relationship where the dude didn't have any type of money to support me. I PAID FOR EVERYTHING. I REFUSE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO CANNOT PAY FOR SOME THINGS. I REFUSE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KEEPS SAYING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN..."one day I'm gonna get that for you" and "Hmmm I'll never be able to do that." I believe that everything I want to do will be done. If you don't believe the same of your own goals then you are WASTING MY TIME. I NEVER said I wanted someone to jump up my butt and follow me around throwing money everywhere I walk. If you are going to comment on my blog entries then you might want to make sure you have read them correctly. You also might want to make sure you know my history and know the things I have been through before you go thinking you know what I want.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Don't Bother...

I had to take some time out of my evening to write this because I am wondering why some of these men really believe they have a chance to be with me. In fact, I am wondering why some of them even think they can talk to me in general. There are several things wrong with you men and I am going to list these negative attributes below. In case you were wondering, yes this is meant to possibly hurt your feelings.

1) I am a strong and INDEPENDENT black woman. I do not need a weakling of a man. I need a man who is going to be just as strong as I am. A weak man with a strong woman is just a little puppy dog. If I wanted someone to follow me around, sniff my butt, sit at my feet, and piddle in the corner I would just buy a damn dog. (At least those are a little easier to train anyway!)

2) Along with this independence comes a great deal of intelligence. If you are sending me messages with words that I have to look up on, then we have a problem. I should not have to, in the middle of a conversation, say “hold on” and go look up what the hell you’re trying to say to me. That’s just a waste of my time.

3) I’m sorry but I do have to pull out some stereotypes on you for just a moment. If your name is Jaquese…and I’m just going to stop there.

4) If you have baby mama drama and you are my age, please don’t bother trying. I am not interested in parenting your child while getting threatening calls from your ex-girlfriend. Just ask my ex. There’s a reason why he’s my ex.

5) If you have been to jail, you should probably NOT lead with this in our conversation. I will most likely walk away without even saying goodbye. I do not have time to sit back wondering when you’ll be getting back from your 10 year sentence for conspiracy.

6) If you have a drug habit, and yes weed is a drug, you need to enlighten me of this ahead of time so I can explain to you that weed does not come before me. If I catch you sneaking into the room to get your puff on, there’s a problem.

7) If you don’t have money…Now wait just one second. Let me specify. I know that if I am dating someone my own age he will probably not be super rich unless mommy and daddy are giving him that money. However, let me put it this way: I do not want to hear “Oh I wish I could get that for you.” Especially if it is something I can buy with my own money. I should not be able to show you up with the money in my pocket.

You know what’s a shame? I posted the first two in one of my previous entries and I know one of these people I’m thinking of definitely read that entry. Why are you still trying? Did you not get it the first time? Should I say it a third time? Maybe I will. Men, if you fit into any of these, please turn the other way when you see me. Don’t even say hello.


Girl Talk

Listen y'all need to know this that we'll straight up go tell your business. So if you're gonna come you better come with it. If you ain't swingin' just put your tongue in it.


I'm Crazy But You Like It

I need a man who knows I'm crazy, but loves it!


Tuesday, October 19, 2010

We were living a lie

After all this time...


I wish we never loved it

I do...