Monday, April 30, 2012

No relationships....

I don’t want a relationship right now because men my age are too immature and unreliable, and older men just can’t seem to handle the fact that I am still young and want to enjoy my twenties. I don’t want to settle down with the first man who comes along, simply because he’s older, educated, or talented. I enjoy the things I do on an everyday basis. I love spending my free time watching TV, playing video games, singing, dancing, reading books, and working on shows. I love to go out. I love to drink on the weekend. I don’t need to get drunk, but I like having the option to do so.
My most recent ex and I didn’t work out because he was very much focused on finding a wife, and I am NOT wife material. Every little thing I did, he was judging me. He watched me very closely when I was in social situations with my friends, and for some reason, he didn’t like the way I acted around them. He would claim that I was a different person when I drank….WHO ISN’T? The problem wasn’t the way I acted when I drank though. The problem was that my friend and I would get together and act who we usually act around each other. We would let out hair down and talk about any and every little thing. He didn’t like the fact that we would be loud when we did it.
What I need every guy to realize, is that when you’re getting to know me, or when you’re dating me, I am going to be ME. I am not going to censor who I am. I am a very strong, young, independent, well-educated, goal-oriented woman, but I like to have fun. I like to dance. I like to sing. I like to be loud. I like to be spoiled. I want to be treated like a princess. I don’t ask for much. I just want to be fed 4 times a day. I don’t need you to throw dollars at me. I don’t need expensive jewelry. I have my own money. I can buy my own things. I simply need someone who understands that I am one of the most outgoing, flirtatious women you will meet, but if you’re the right guy, you’ll be confident that I’m not going anywhere. I am going to respect you. I will only be with you, and I would make sure you were happy with how things were.
If you cannot handle the kind of woman I am, then please don’t even bother. I know I can be demanding at times. I know I like to get my way. You should know that right away and be able to judge just how much you think you can take. That’s  all there is to it. It is what it is.