I want to share with you a conversation that I had with one of my good friends.
Her: bleekkk where are the good fellas?
they don't exist
this is the thing
you have to get with the geeks
if you want to be treated right and settle down...video game geeks...computer geeks...artists
my sweetie and his group of friends are like the perfect guys minus their obsession with being geeks lol...but that's what makes them unique
and they're so intelligent. you can have the best conversations with them. I love that they know things I would never have been interested in but they make me want to listen lol
the problem is...we catch these types of guys when some other girl has already dicked them over and it ruins things for us
I completely believe in everything I said above. I believe that most women underestimate the stereotypical “geek” because they believe they have nothing going for them other than the fact that they have this infinite amount of knowledge about "computer processes". Most women see the geek as the ugly Steve Urkel type: suspenders, coke-bottle glasses, high-pitched voice. But let me ask you a question-Who did Laura Winslow choose at the end of the sitcom?- She chose her loveable geek, NOT the sexy, confident clone that he created to please her eyes. I bet you’re wondering “why would she choose Steve after all the years of ignoring his geeky charm?” I’ll tell you why.
Here are the BEST qualities of geeks:
Humbleness- Although they often tend to doubt themselves in social situations, this allows for them to think before they speak. When they think, they’re usually thinking about YOUR needs first. Unlike the stereotypical cocky male figure, who only thinks about how lucky you are to be with him.
Intelligence- It is not just a level of intelligence where you feel like you can have a simple conversation with him that others cannot seem to grasp. With the loving geek you ALWAYS find yourself learning things-you might not have cared about before- but find so intriguing when he tells you. It’s the way his eyes glow when he’s just discovered something so simple yet complex. It’s the way he gets excited to answer questions for you especially if you really don’t understand the situation.
But above everything else: The best geeks are ALWAYS willing to make their princess happy. This does not mean buying your love and affection, which is what most people assume. This means remembering the little things that make you happy.
So why did Laura choose Steve? Because he put himself in the worst situations just to please her. He created a sexy clone because he knew the qualities she liked in a man, including his looks. More importantly, Steve gave up on his popular lifestyle as Stefan in order to be her true knight in shiny armour…or I guess, geek in high-water pants. So who are you going to choose?